2015.05.10

 

閱讀筆記-如何界定你自己

 

繼續工作，抬頭挺胸，面帶微笑，繼續做自己，別人終究會了解你的優點。我就這麼做。

甚麼界定了你？你是誰？這和你的出生、家世背景或者朋友有關嗎？是甚麼？到底是甚麼界定了你這個人？ 

我的生活我自己掌握，我是自己命運的駕駛員，唯有自己才能決定命運的列車駛向崎嶇或平坦的道路，唯有自己才能決定甚麼可以界定自己。我不在乎是甚麼東西界定了我。

我開始了解生活可以操之在自己，要嘛讓生活過得更好，或是讓生活過得更悲慘，我可以滿懷感激，並且張開雙眼察覺，並珍惜所擁有的事物，然後讓這些事界定自己。

 我可以依著現況選擇開心，或選擇苦惱，然後抱怨個不停。不，要讓自己的目標成功，及成就來界定自己。

我告訴我自己要盡全力做事情，讓自己變得更好。你們知道嗎？我會把別人所說負面的事情轉個方向，並以此為階梯，爬向自己所設定的目標。

讓那些負面的評論，成為驅使自己向前的能量，善用這點，善用這點，善用生活中負面的人事物，提升自己，讓自己變得更好。勇氣從這裡開始!

 

 

Reading Note- How do you define yourself

GO to school, pick your head up, smile, continue to be yourself, and people will see that you’re just better. And so that’s what I did.  

What defines you? Who are you? Is it where you come from? Is it your background?

Is it your friends? What is it? What defines who you are as a person?

My life was put into my hands. I am the person in the front seat of my car. I am the one who decides whether my car goes down a bad path, or a good path. I am the one who decides what defines me. I don’t care what defines me!

I started realizing that my life is in my hands. I could either choose to make this really good, or I could choose to make this really bad. I could be grateful, and open my eyes and realize the s that I do have, and make those the things that define me.

I could either choose to be happy or I could choose to be upset with what I have and still kind of complain about it. No, I’m going to let my goals, and my success, and my accomplishments be the things that define me.

 

I told myself I’m going to work my butt off and do whatever I could to make myself better. You know what? Tell me those negative things, I’m going to turn them around, and I’m going to use them as a ladder to climb up to my goals.

You used their negativity to light your fire to keep going. Use that. Use that. Use that negativity that you have in your life to make yourself better. Brave starts here.