2020.04.23(星期四) 

不爭對錯 承擔責任

I am taking responsibility for all of my results

不爭對錯，而是承擔責任，說起來容易，做起來難，

但是值得用一生來學習；

如此生活可以像倒吃甘蔗；生命可以更精彩。

附近有兩個家庭。一個家庭在不斷爭吵，而另一個家庭則安靜而友好地生活。有一天，妻子告訴丈夫，嫉妒鄰居的相處得很好……去鄰居那裡看看他們在做什麼，以維持自己的幸福。

丈夫走了，藏起來，開始看。他看到一個正在打掃地板的女人。突然有些事分散了她的注意力，她跑到了廚房。當時，她的丈夫衝進了房間。他沒有注意到那桶水，而是踢了一下水，把水灑在了地板上。

他的妻子從廚房回來，對他說...對不起，親愛的！我的錯。我沒有把水桶移開。

丈夫回答...不，對不起，親愛的！是我的錯，因為我沒有注意到。

該男子返回家中，他的妻子問他是否知道他們的秘密。

我認為不同之處在於，我們總是爭論對錯，而他們則尋求承擔責任。

建立和平關係意味著對我們自己承擔個人責任。

Taking Responsibility :(2020.04.23)

Two families lived nearby. One family was constantly fighting while the other one lived quietly and friendly. One day, feeling jealous about how nicely the neighboring family got along, the wife told her husband….Go to the neighbors and look to see what they are doing for their well-being.

The husband went, hid and began watching. He saw a woman who was cleaning the floor. Suddenly something distracted her and she ran to the kitchen. At that time, her husband rushed into the room. Not noticing the bucket of water, he kicked it and spilled water all over the floor.

His wife came back from the kitchen and said to him…I’m sorry, honey! It’s my fault. I didn’t move the bucket out of the way.

The husband replied…No, I’m sorry, honey! It’s my fault, because I did not notice it.

The man returned home and his wife asked him if he found out what their secret is.

I think the difference is that we always seek to be right, while they seek to take responsibility for their part.

Having peaceful relationships mean taking personal responsibility for our own part.