2020年7月2日 星期四




2020.07.03 姊弟情深-親情是永恆的


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姐弟情深 - 親情是永恆的
今日清晨讀了這篇故事( Thee Eternal of Brother and Sister),流著淚讀完。窮困人家的孩子,無法讓姊弟同時上學,弟弟犧牲自己學業,處處為姊姊著想,成長歷程,弟弟離家打工,資助姊姊完成學業,即至成長到姊姊公司工作,仍然堅持擔任基層工作,不讓姊姊、姊夫難以領導。這份情懷,除了姊弟情深,更是一份品格,有些可能是小事,但是能做到,那份情操是應堅守?抑或方便行事?考驗的是每個人的價值觀和毅力以及對生活的態度吧!

關懷身邊的人,可能只是一件小事,但是對於那個人來說,這可能意味著很多。有能力幫助、關懷他人時,記得伸出溫暖的雙手。愛與關懷需要長時間來培育。

姐弟情深,故事內容如下:

我出生在山上一個僻靜的村莊。我的父母日復一日地在貧瘠的黃土高原上耕作,有一天,我想買一條手帕,我周圍的所有女孩似乎都擁有。因此,有一天我從父親的抽屜裡偷了50分錢。父親馬上就發現了。

「誰偷了錢?」他問我弟弟和我。我嚇呆了,不敢說話。我們倆都沒有承認過錯,所以他說:「很好,如果沒人願意承認,你們倆都應該受到懲罰!」突然,我的弟弟握住父親的手,說:「爸爸,我是做這件事的人!」弟弟為我承擔了責任和懲罰。

在半夜裡,我突然大聲喊叫。我弟弟用小手摀住我的嘴,說:「姊姊,現在別哭了。一切都發生了。」當我的弟保護我時,我永遠不會忘記他的表情。那年,我弟弟8歲,我11歲。我仍然討厭自己沒有足夠的勇氣來承認自己的所作所為。數年過去了,但事件似乎仍然像昨天一樣。

當我弟弟上中學的最後一年時,他被鎮中部的一所高中錄取。同時,我被該省的一所大學錄取。那天晚上,父親蹲在院子裡,一包一包地吸煙。我能聽到他問我的母親:「我們兩個孩子的學習成績都好嗎?效果很好嗎?「母親擦乾眼淚,嘆了口氣:「有什麼用?我們怎麼可能為他們兩個提供學費?」

那時,我弟弟走了出去,他站在父親面前說:「爸爸,我不想繼續學習了,我已經讀了足夠多的書。」父親生氣了。「為什麼你的精神如此軟弱?即使這意味著我必須在大街上乞討,我也會送你們兩個去學校,直到你們倆都完成學業為止!」然後,他開始敲敲村里的每所房子借錢。

我盡可能輕柔地伸出手,撫摸弟弟的臉,並告訴他:「一個男孩必須繼續學習。如果沒有,他將無法克服我們正在經歷的這種貧困。」另一方面,我決定不繼續大學學習。

沒有人知道,第二天,天亮之前,我的弟弟帶著幾件破舊的衣服和一些干豆離開了房子。他偷偷溜到我的床邊,在我的枕頭上留下了一張紙條,「姐姐,上大學並不容易。我會去找工作,然後匯款給您。」我坐在床上拿著鈔票,哭了直到失去聲音。

父親從整個村莊借來的錢,以及弟弟在建築工地背上背水泥賺來的錢,最終,我設法進入了大學學習的第三年。那年,我弟弟17歲,我20歲。

有一天,當我在房間裡讀書時,我的室友進來告訴我:「外面有一個村民在等你!」為什麼會有一個村民在找我?我走了出去,遠遠地看到了我的兄弟。他的全身佈滿了灰塵,灰塵,水泥和沙子。我問他:「你為什麼不告訴我的室友你是我的兄弟?」

他笑著回答:「看看我的模樣。如果他們知道我是你的兄弟,他們會怎麼想?他們會不會嘲笑你?」我感到很感動,眼淚充滿了我的眼睛。我清除了弟弟身體上的灰塵。摀著鼻子告訴他:「我不在乎別人會怎麼說!無論你長什麼樣,你都是我的兄弟。」

他從口袋裡掏出一隻蝴蝶髮夾。他把它戴在我的頭髮上說,「我看到鎮上的所有女孩都戴著它。我想你也應該有一個。」我再也忍不住了。我把哥哥抱在懷裡哭了。那年,我弟弟20歲,而我23歲。

結婚後,我住在這座城市。我丈夫多次邀請我的父母來和我們一起生活,但他們不想。他們說,一旦離開村莊,他們將不知所措。我的兄弟同意他們的觀點。他說:“姊姊,您照顧您的公婆。我會在這裡照顧爸爸媽媽。」

我丈夫成為他工廠的廠長。我們要求我的兄弟接受擔任維修部門經理的提議。但是我兄弟拒絕了這個提議。他堅持以修理工的身份開始工作。

有一天,我弟弟在梯子上修理電纜時被電擊,被送往醫院。我和丈夫在醫院探望了他。我看著他腿上的石膏,我抱怨道:「你為什麼拒絕擔任經理的提議?經理不會做那種危險的事情。現在看著你–您遭受嚴重傷害。你為什麼不聽我們的話?」

他臉上表情嚴肅,為自己的決定辯護:「想想姐夫,他剛當上了主任。我沒有受過教育,就成為一名經理,將會流傳什麼樣的謠言?」我丈夫的眼睛充滿了眼淚,然後我說:「但是,僅僅因為我,您就缺乏教育!」

「你為什麼談論過去?」他說,然後他握住我的手。那年,他26歲,而我29歲。我哥哥娶了了一個村里的農家女孩,當時30歲。在婚禮招待會上,司儀問他:「誰是您最尊敬和最愛的人?」

他甚至不花時間思考,回答說:「我的姐姐。」他繼續講一個我什至不記得的故事。「當我上小學時,學校在另一個村莊。每天,我和姐姐都會步行2個小時去學校,然後回到家。有一天,我丟了一隻手套。我姐姐給了我她的一個。她只戴著一隻手套。我們回到家時,由於天氣寒冷,她的手在顫抖。她甚至不能握住筷子。從那天起,我發誓只要我活著,我就會照顧姐姐,永遠對她有益。」

掌聲響起了整個房間。所有的客人都把注意力轉向了我。我艱難地說:「在我的一生中,我最要感謝的是我的兄弟。」在這個快樂的時刻,在人群面前,眼淚又滾落了我的臉。

道德:愛與關懷每一天所愛的人。您可能會認為您所做的只是一件小事,但是對於那個人來說,這可能意味著很多。有些關係可以維持更長的時間,但仍然需要愛與關懷來培育它們。


The Eternal Bond of Brother and Sister (2020.07.03)

I was born in a secluded village on a mountain. Day after day, my parents plowed the yellow dry soil with their backs towards the sky. One day, I wanted to buy a handkerchief, which all girls around me seemed to have. So, one day I stole 50 cents from my father’s drawer. Father discovered about the stolen money right away.

Who stole the money?” he asked my brother and me. I was stunned, too afraid to talk. Neither of us admitted to the fault, so he said, “Fine, if nobody wants to admit, you both should be punished!” Suddenly, my younger brother gripped Father’s hand and said, “Dad, I was the one who did it!” He took the blame, and punishment, for me.

In the middle of the night, all of sudden, I cried out loudly. My brother covered my mouth with his little hand and said, “Sis, now don’t cry anymore. Everything has happened.” I will never forget my brother’s expression when he protected me. That year, my brother was 8 years old and I was 11 years old. I still hate myself for not having enough courage to admit what I did. Years went by, but the incident still seemed like it just happened yesterday.

When my brother was in his last year of secondary school, he was accepted in an upper secondary school in the central part of town. At the same time, I was accepted into a university in the province. That night, Father squatted in the yard, smoking packet by packet. I could hear him ask my mother, “Both of our children, they have good results? Very good results?” Mother wiped off her tears and sighed, “What is the use? How can we possibly finance both of them?”

At that time, my brother walked out, he stood in front of Father and said, “Dad, I don’t want to continue my study anymore, I have read enough books.” Father became angry. “Why do you have a spirit so weak? Even if it means I have to beg for money on the streets, I will send you two to school until you have both finished your studies!” And then, he started to knock on every house in the village to borrow money.

I stuck out my hand as gently as I could to my brother’s face, and told him, “A boy has to continue his study. If not, he will not be able to overcome this poverty we are experiencing.” I, on the other hand, had decided not to further my study at the university.

Nobody knew that on the next day, before dawn, my brother left the house with a few pieces of worn-out clothes and a few dry beans. He sneaked to my side of the bed and left a note on my pillow, “Sis, getting into a university is not easy. I will go find a job and I will send money to you.” I held the note while sitting on my bed, and cried until I lost my voice.

With the money father borrowed from the whole village, and the money my brother earned from carrying cement on his back at a construction site, finally, I managed to get to the third year of my study in the university. That year, my brother was 17 years old and I was 20 years old.

One day, while I was studying in my room, my roommate came in and told me, “There’s a villager waiting for you outside!” Why would there be a villager looking for me? I walked out, and I saw my brother from afar. His whole body was covered with dirt, dust, cement and sand. I asked him, “Why did you not tell my roommate that you are my brother?”

He replied with a smile, “Look at my appearance. What will they think if they would know that I am your brother? Won’t they laugh at you?” I felt so touched, and tears filled my eyes. I swept away dirt and dust from my brother’s body. And told him with a lump in my throat, “I don’t care what people would say! You are my brother no matter what your appearance.”

From his pocket, he took out a butterfly hair clip. He put it on my hair and said, ‘I saw all the girls in town are wearing it. I think you should also have one.’ I could not hold back myself anymore. I pulled my brother into my arms and cried. That year, my brother was 20 years old and I was 23 years old.

After I got married, I lived in the city. Many times my husband invited my parents to come and live with us, but they didn’t want. They said once they left the village, they wouldn’t know what to do. My brother agreed with them. He said, “Sis, you just take care of your parents-in-law. I will take care of Mom and Dad here.”

My husband became the directors of his factory. We asked my brother to accept the offer of being the manager in the maintenance department. But my brother rejected the offer. He insisted on working as a repairman instead for a start.

One day, my brother was on the top of a ladder repairing a cable, when he got electrocuted, and was sent to the hospital. My husband and I visited him at the hospital. Looking at the plaster cast on his leg, I grumbled, “Why did you reject the offer of being a manager? Managers won’t do something dangerous like that. Now look at you – you are suffering a serious injury. Why didn’t you just listen to us?”

With a serious expression on his face, he defended his decision, “Think of your brother-in-law, he just became the director. If I, being uneducated, would become a manager, what kind of rumors would fly around?” My husband’s eyes filled up with tears, and then I said, “But you lack in education only because of me!”

Why do you talk about the past?” he said and then he held my hand. That year, he was 26 years old and I was 29 years old. My brother was 30 years old when he married a farmer girl from the village. During the wedding reception, the master of ceremonies asked him, “Who is the one person you respect and love the most?”

Without even taking a time to think, he answered, “My sister.” He continued by telling a story I could not even remember. “When I was in primary school, the school was in a different village. Everyday, my sister and I would walk for 2 hours to school and back home. One day, I lost one of my gloves. My sister gave me one of hers. She wore only one glove and she had to walk far. When we got home, her hands were trembling because of the cold weather. She could not even hold her chopsticks. From that day on, I swore that as long as I lived, I would take care of my sister and would always be good to her.”

Applause filled up the room. All guests turned their attention to me. I found it hard to speak, “In my whole life, the one I would like to thank most is my brother,” And in this happy occasion, in front of the crowd, tears were rolling down my face again.

Moral: Love and care for the one you love every single day of your life. You may think what you did is just a small deed, but to that someone, it may mean a lot. Some relations are made to be last longer but they still need to be nurtured with love and care.


2020年4月24日 星期五



2020.04.25 (星期六)
成長需要奮鬥:
破繭而出的奮鬥歷程是成長必要的養分 

Pass Through The Struggle & Live Your Best Life | Rosemary Nonny ...

The strugglr is the way!

有一個人發現了一隻蝴蝶的繭。有一天,一個小洞出現了。當蝴蝶努力地迫使它的身體穿過那個小洞時,他看到並觀察了幾個小時。然後它似乎停止任何進展。似乎它已經走到了盡頭,再也走不了了。因此,這個人決定幫助蝴蝶。

他用剪刀剪開了繭。蝴蝶隨即出現。但是它有一個腫脹的身體和瘦小的翅膀。這個人繼續看蝴蝶,因為他希望蝴蝶身體會逐漸縮小,翅膀會長大和伸展。但是,都沒發生!實際上,蝴蝶的餘生都以腫脹的身體和彎曲的翅膀爬行。

蝴蝶從未飛過。這個人出於仁慈和匆忙,他不明白的是,限制蝴蝶破繭而出所需的掙扎是自然界迫使蝴蝶體內的液體進入翅膀的方式。一旦脫離繭,它將準備飛行。
有時候,奮鬥正是我們生活中所需要的。如果我們沒有任何障礙地度過一生,那將會削弱我們。我們不會變堅強。永遠無法飛!

Sometimes we need the struggle : (2020.04.25)


A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He saw and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gone as far as it could and it could go no further. So the man decided to help the butterfly.

He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time. Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings.

It was never able to fly. What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were nature s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If we went through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly!


2020.04.24 星期五
與自己對話 - 永不放棄 
Never Give Up
If you fall behind, run faster. 
Never give up ,never surrender 
and rise up against the odds.
 如果落後,請運行得更快。 永不放棄,永不屈服,勇往直前。

一直以來,一直在掙扎,實際上已經在紮根
you must never give up – instead, you need to rise as high as you can!
沒關係,現在您的生活正在發生什麼,您必須閱讀此短篇小說。

這是一個關於一個決定辭掉工作,人際關係和靈性的男人的短篇小說。但是在此之前,他向上帝徵求了意見。

“我有一天醒來,像往常一樣經歷了這一天,當時我突然想退出一切,包括工作,人際關係和靈性。在那之前,我去與上帝做最後的談話,問他是否可以給我至少一個為什麼不放棄這一切的理由。”

我繼續…。 “在第三年,竹子仍然一無所有。但是,我不會辭職。第四年,竹子再也沒有了。我不會放棄。然後在第五年,地球上出現了一個小小的新芽。與蕨類植物相比,它看上去很小而且微不足道……但是僅僅六個月後,竹子就升到了100英尺高。它花了五年的時間紮根。這些根源使它變得強大,並賦予它生存所需的東西。我不會給我的任何創作帶來無法解決的挑戰。”

然後上帝問...。 “孩子,您知道嗎,一直以來,您一直在掙扎,實際上已經在紮根。我不會放棄竹子。我永遠不會放棄你。他補充說:“別把自己比作別人。竹子的用途不同於蕨類植物。但是它們都使森林變得美麗。你的時光來了,你會變得更高。”
我問他:“我應該升高多高?”上帝回答:“竹子將升高多高?”
我感到困惑,回答:“盡可能高嗎?”上帝說:“是的。通過盡可能地高高來給我榮耀。”
經過這次不尋常的交談後,我回家寫了這個故事,讓您知道上帝愛您,永不放棄您,所以您絕不能放棄-相反,您需要盡可能地提高自己!

I reading stories every day.This today's story , I feeling I must continue rise English ability.

The Bamboo and The Fern

No Matter What’s Happening in Your Life Right Now, You Must Read This Short Story.
This is an amazing short story about a man who decided to quit his job, relationship and spirituality. But before it, he asked for advice from God.
I woke up one day and went through it as usual, when I felt the sudden urge to quit everything – my job, my relationship and my spirituality. Before that, I went to have a final talk with God and asked him if he can give me at least one reason why not to quit it all."

I continued…. “In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But, I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit. Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant…But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."

Then God asked…. “Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. Don’t compare yourself to others," he added. “The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful. Your time will come. You will rise high".

How high should I Rise?" I asked him, and God replied: “How high will the bamboo rise?"

Confused, I answered: “As high as it can?" and God said: “Yes. Give Me glory by rising as high as you can."


After this unusual conversation I went home and wrote this story to let you know that God loves you and will never quit on you, so you must never give up – instead, you need to rise as high as you can!"


2020年4月22日 星期三

2020.04.23(星期四
不爭對錯 承擔責任

Taking Responsibility of Yourself – Rahul N Singh

I am taking responsibility for all of my results

不爭對錯,而是承擔責任,說起來容易,做起來難,
但是值得用一生來學習;
如此生活可以像倒吃甘蔗;生命可以更精彩。

附近有兩個家庭。一個家庭在不斷爭吵,而另一個家庭則安靜而友好地生活。有一天,妻子告訴丈夫,嫉妒鄰居的相處得很好……去鄰居那裡看看他們在做什麼,以維持自己的幸福。

丈夫走了,藏起來,開始看。他看到一個正在打掃地板的女人。突然有些事分散了她的注意力,她跑到了廚房。當時,她的丈夫衝進了房間。他沒有注意到那桶水,而是踢了一下水,把水灑在了地板上。

他的妻子從廚房回來,對他說...對不起,親愛的!我的錯。我沒有把水桶移開。
丈夫回答...不,對不起,親愛的!是我的錯,因為我沒有注意到。

該男子返回家中,他的妻子問他是否知道他們的秘密。
我認為不同之處在於,我們總是爭論對錯,而他們則尋求承擔責任。

建立和平關係意味著對我們自己承擔個人責任。

Taking Responsibility :(2020.04.23)

Two families lived nearby. One family was constantly fighting while the other one lived quietly and friendly. One day, feeling jealous about how nicely the neighboring family got along, the wife told her husband….Go to the neighbors and look to see what they are doing for their well-being.

The husband went, hid and began watching. He saw a woman who was cleaning the floor. Suddenly something distracted her and she ran to the kitchen. At that time, her husband rushed into the room. Not noticing the bucket of water, he kicked it and spilled water all over the floor.

His wife came back from the kitchen and said to him…I’m sorry, honey! It’s my fault. I didn’t move the bucket out of the way.

The husband replied…No, I’m sorry, honey! It’s my fault, because I did not notice it.

The man returned home and his wife asked him if he found out what their secret is.

I think the difference is that we always seek to be right, while they seek to take responsibility for their part.

Having peaceful relationships mean taking personal responsibility for our own part.


2020年4月20日 星期一

2020.04.21星期二
生命的意義

Exploring Purpose of Life - Hamza Shamshad - Medium

I'm much more me when i'm with you 
The purpose of life is to discover you gift.
The work of life is to develop it.
The meaning of life is to give your gift away.

生活的意義與生命的哲學,在很多時候都是圍繞身邊,看似理所當然而不知珍惜;
但是,當環境變遷,或面臨危機或轉折時,猛然回頭,原來幸福就在周遭,
珍惜現在與擁有就是幸福,為自己添柴火,讓自己的光芒展現!


不要將時間浪費在您不喜歡的工作上。很明顯,您無法成功完成自己不喜歡的事情。只有當您熱愛自己的工作時,耐心,熱情和奉獻才能輕鬆實現。

害怕別人的意見很愚蠢。恐懼會削弱和使您癱瘓。如果您放任自流,它會變得越來越糟,直到您一無所有,只有自己的外殼。聽您內心的聲音並接受它有些人可能稱您為瘋子,但有些人甚至認為您是傳奇。

掌控自己的生活。對您發生的事情承擔全部責任。限制不良習慣並嘗試過健康的生活。尋找讓您快樂的運動。最重要的是,不要拖延。讓您的生活取決於您所做的決定,而不是您沒有做出的決定。

欣賞你周圍的人。您的朋友和親戚將永遠是力量和愛的無限源泉。因此,您不應該將它們視為理所當然。

對於這些簡單的實現的重要性,我很難完全表達自己的看法,但我希望您能聽聽經驗豐富的人的心聲。我不會感到沮喪,因為我知道人生的最後階段變得有意義。

我僅感到遺憾的是,我將看不到很多很酷的東西,比如AI或下一個很棒的項目Elon Musks的創建將很快發生。我也希望敘利亞戰爭烏克蘭將很快結束。我們非常關心身體的健康和完整性,直到死亡,我們才注意到,身體不過是一個盒子,而是一個向我們傳達個性,思想,信念和意圖的包裹。

如果此框中沒有任何東西可以改變世界,那麼消失不重要。我相信我們都有潛力,但要實現這一潛力還需要很大的勇氣。您可以在由環境造成的生活中漂流,日復一日,小時復刻。或者,您可以為自己的信念而戰,並寫下自己人生中的精彩故事。希望您會做出正確的選擇。

在這個世界上留下印記。擁有有意義的生活,無論它對您有什麼定義。走向它我們要離開的地方是一個美麗的遊樂場,在那裡一切皆有可能。但是,我們不會永遠存在。在這個美麗的小星球上,我們的生命是短暫的火花,它以驚人的速度陷入未知宇宙無盡的黑暗中。因此,在這裡盡情享受您的時間。使它有趣。讓它計數!

 a meaningful life

Don’t waste your time on work that you don’t enjoy. It is obvious that you cannot succeed in something that you don’t like. Patience, passion and dedication come easily only when you love what you do.


It’s stupid to be afraid of others’ opinions. Fear weakens and paralyzes you. If you let it, it can grow worse and worse every day until there is nothing left of you, but a shell of yourself. Listen to your inner voice and go with it Some people may call you crazy, but some may even think you're a legend.

Take control of your life. Take full responsibility for the things that happen to you. Limit bad habits and try to lead a healthier life. Find a sport that makes you happy. Most of all, don’t procrastinate. Let your life be shaped by decisions you made, not by the ones you didn’t.

Appreciate the people around you. Your friends and relatives will always be an infinite source of strength and love. That is why you shouldn’t take them for granted.

It is difficult for me to fully express my feelings about the importance of these simple realizations, but I hope that you will listen to someone who has experienced how valuable time is. I’m not upset because I understand that the last days of my life have become meaningful.

I only regret that I will not be able to see a lot of cool stuff that should happen soon like the creation of AI or Elon Musks next awesome project. I also hope that the war in Syria and Ukraine will end soon. We care so much about the health and integrity of our body that until death, we don’t notice that the body is nothing more than a box - a parcel for delivering our personality, thoughts, beliefs and intentions to this world.

If there is nothing in this box that can change the world, then it doesn’t matter if it disappears. I believe that we all have potential, but it also takes a lot of courage to realize it. You can float through a life created by circumstances, missing day after day, hour after hour. Or, you can fight for what you believe in and write the great story of your life. I hope you will make the right choice.

Leave a mark in this world. Have a meaningful life, whatever definition it has for you. Go towards it The place we are leaving is a beautiful playground, where everything is possible. Yet, we are not here forever. Our life is a short spark in this beautiful little planet that mess with incredible speed to the endless darkness of the unknown universe. So, enjoy your time here with passion. Make it interesting. Make it count!

2020年4月10日 星期五


2020.04.11(星期六
環境塑造人

Why inspiration matters, inspiring environments, inspiring people ...

Environment shapes our immune system: Study | Lifestyle News,The ...

Why inspiration matters, inspiring environments, inspiring people. 
It shapes you as a person.
 Your environment shapes your success.



為什麼啟發很重要,啟發環境,啟發人們。 
它塑造你一個人。 
您的環境決定著您的成功。

近朱者赤 ,近墨者黑,
環境會改變一個人,
所以自古以來有孟母三遷的故事,
無非是在良好的環境中,讓孩子可以學習好的文化,
人類如此,生物界亦然,藉此寓言故事,再次增強此一概念。

兩隻鸚鵡在一棵榕樹上築巢。母鸚鵡在巢中產了兩個雞蛋。一段時間後,雞蛋被鎖住了。有兩隻小雞從他們身上出來。親鳥照顧好他們。幾週後,幼鴿便能夠飛一些距離。

鳥的父親說:“我們照顧好年幼的孩子。我們也餵飽了他們。他們一起玩。他們學會了飛行。現在他們可以照顧自己。讓我們慢慢讓他們自己決定。”

每天早上,親鳥飛出去為幼鴿取食。然後他們在晚上帶回來的食物帶給年幼的孩子。這是他們的生活持續了一段時間。

一位獵人看到了這些鳥的這種行為。他得知老鳥在早上離開。他決定在母鴿離開後抓幼鴿。按照計劃,他抓到了幼鴿。幼鴿竭盡全力使自己擺脫獵人的魔掌。兩隻幼鳥中的一隻逃脫了獵人。另一隻鳥被獵人關在籠子裡到他家。

“我抓到了兩隻小鳥。獵人對他的孩子們說,但我丟了一隻鸚鵡。他又給孩子們補充說:“把這只鸚鵡安全地關在籠子裡,然後玩這只鸚鵡。”

獵人的孩子們在玩鸚鵡。很快,獵人家中的鸚鵡學會了說幾句話。孩子們對父親說:“爸爸,我們的鸚鵡學會了說幾句話。”

另一隻鸚鵡飛走了。它從獵人那裡逃脫了。它飛了一段時間。然後來到了偏僻寺院。一些聖人住在偏僻寺院。他們對幼鸚鵡沒有任何傷害。小鸚鵡呆在那裡。它聽了他們的談話。它學會了說幾句話。

某個旅行者正走在獵人的小屋附近。他很累。他坐在小屋裡。他聽到鸚鵡說話。它說:“傻瓜,你為什麼要來這裡?我會割喉。”

旅行者很遺憾聽到這樣的壞話。他立刻站起來。他著急離開了這個地方。然後他走了一段時間到達了偏僻寺院。鸚鵡坐在偏僻寺院附近的一棵樹上。

鸚鵡說:“歡迎光臨,旅行者。歡迎來到這個偏僻寺院。我們在這個森林裡有很多好水果。吃任何你喜歡的。聖潔的人會很好地對待你。”

旅行者很驚訝。他對鸚鵡說。 “我在獵人小屋附近遇到了一隻小鸚鵡。說不禮貌的話。我立刻離開了那個地方。現在我遇見了你。你說好話。你的話很客氣。你和其他鳥都是鸚鵡。那為什麼會有這種語言上的差異呢?”

通過這個陳述,在偏僻寺院裡的鸚鵡猜到了另一隻鸚鵡就是它的兄弟。寄居鸚鵡說:“旅行者,另一隻鸚鵡是我的兄弟。但是我們生活在兩個不同的地方。我兄弟學了獵人的語言。但是我學會了聖潔的人的語言。是塑造您的言行的公司。”

好的公司可以幫助您學習好東西。糟糕的公司會使您變得糟透了。

Good Company and Bad Company


This Short Story Good Company and Bad Company is quite interesting to all the people. Enjoy reading this story.

Two parrots had built their nest on a banyan tree. The female parrot laid two eggs in the nest. After sometime, the eggs latched. Two chicks came out of them. The parent birds took good care of them. After few weeks, the young birds were able to fly for some distances.

The father bird said, “We have taken good care of our young ones. We have fed them well too. They have played together. They have learned to fly. Now they can take care of themselves. Let us slowly leave them to decide on their own."

Every morning the parent birds flew out to fetch food for the young birds. Then they returned in the evening with food for their young children. This was their lives went on for a while.

A hunter saw this behavior of these birds. He learned that the old birds went out in the morning. He decided to catch the young birds after the old birds would go away in the morning. As planned he caught the young birds. The young birds struggled their best to free themselves from the clutches of the hunter. One of the two young birds escaped from the hunter. The other bird was taken in a cage by the hunter to his house.

I caught tow birds. But I lost one parrot," said the hunter to his children. And he further added to his children, “Keep this parrot safely in the cage and play with this parrot."

The hunter’s children played with the parrot. Very soon the parrot in the house of the hunter learnt to speak few words. The children said to their father, “Dad, our parrot has learnt to say a few words."

The other parrot flew away. It had escaped from the hunter. It flew for some time. Then it came to a hermitage. Some holy men lived in the hermitage. They did not do any harm to the young parrot. The young parrot stayed there. It listened to their talk. It learnt to say a few words.

A certain traveler was walking near the hunter’s hut. He was tires. He sat nest the hut. He heard the parrot speak. It said, “Fool, why have you come here? I will cut your throat."

The traveler was very sorry to hear such bad words. He got up immediately. He left the place in a hurry. Then he walked for some time and reached the hermitage. The parrot was sitting on a tree near the hermitage.

The parrot spoke, “Welcome, traveler. Welcome to this hermitage. We have a lot of good fruits in this forest. Eat whatever you like. The holy men will treat you well."

The traveler was surprised. He said to the parrot. “I met a young parrot near a hunter’s hut. It spoke badly. I left the place immediately. Now I have met you. You speak so well. Your words are kind and gentle. Both you and the other birds are parrots. Then why this difference in your language is there?"

By this statement, the parrot in the hermitage guessed that the other parrot was none other than its brother. The hermitage parrot said, “Traveler, the other parrot is my brother. But we have lived in two different places. My brother has learnt the hunter’s language. But I have learnt the language of holy people. It is the company that shapes your words and deeds."

Good company helps you learn good things. Bad company makes you lean bad things.


2020.04.11(星期六)
珍惜每一分鐘

You Have Only One Life, please cherish every minute! — Steemit

CORVID-19 蔓延,全球陷入危機,有些 國家因醫療資源不足,對於年長者放棄救治,讓其終止生命。今日閱讀此文,這是及時的教訓
當一個有錢人退休時,死亡天使來到他身邊,他努力工作獲得巨額財富,不敢相信自己的時光已到。他非常有錢,決定不惜一切代價向死亡天使購買更多時間。他花很長時間討價還價,但天使無動於衷。

絕望的是,有錢人向天使提出了最後一個建議。。。給我一小時,這樣我就可以最後一次欣賞地球的美麗,與我的家人和朋友度過一段時光見了很久,我會給你我所有的財富。但是天使再次拒絕了。最後,那個人問天使是否可以給他至少一分鐘的時間,以便他可以寫再見信。他的願望實現了,他寫了便條……。

建議您「以正確的方式運用您的時間,我無法以財富買到一小時的時間。傾聽您的內心,檢查身邊的事物是否具有真正的價值。珍惜每一個一分鐘。」

Go By Heart : Cherish every minute of your life

This brought me to tears. What a powerful lesson on time.

A rich man was retiring when an angel of death came to him. He had worked long and hard to acquire massive wealth and retire in luxury, and could not believe that his time was up. Being a very wealthy person, he decided to buy some more time from the angel of death at any cost. He bargained for a long time but the angel was unmoved.

Desperate, the rich man made the last proposal to the angel… Give me just one hour of my life, so that I could admire the beauty of this earth for the last time and spend some time with my family and friends whom I haven't seen for a long time and I will give you all of my wealth. But the angel refused again. Finally, the man asked if the angel could give him at least one minute so that he could write a goodbye note. His wish was granted and he wrote a note….


"Spend your time, which was given to you, in the right way. I couldn't buy even an hour of life with all of my wealth. Listen to your heart and check if the things surrounding you have a true value. Cherish every minute of your life."