2014.11.07
此時此地
人無時無刻不在改變,從很多方面看到自己的轉變,從完美主義到現在,這轉變還在進行,此時此刻正在發生,從完美主義轉換成追求卓越,這一轉變與我的快樂歷程緊密相連。我想分享個人的一些經歷,我每天早上6點起床用完早餐到學校,下班後我會去散步到晚上,才回家閱讀,然後睡覺,好幾年一直都是如此,好愉悅,好享受,尤其是間歇的學習,與同事一起成長。
當時有一個信念,有一個願望,一個目標,一直支撐著我「要幫助他人」。我告訴自己,如果我達到了,我就得道快樂與平靜,一切付出都是值得。為什麼?因為只有付出才有快樂。
我們想盡辦法把事情擠在一起做,以節省時間,我不知道你們怎麼樣,但我時間不夠,我時間越來越少了。假設我們能省出一堆時間,有了空閒,然後做甚麼呢?甚麼也不做。甚麼也不做,意義不是如此嗎?但以後的一堆時間是無法可以保證的,能控制的只有此時此地,所以拖延的感覺才這麼好。
拖延不是問題,是解決方法,是全世界共同表達,停下,慢點,你太快了,聽聽音樂,甚麼,聽音樂。記住,現在就拖延,別延遲。
1989年我通過小學校長甄試,我了解,只有付出才有收穫,我持續學習努力工作。1997年通過國中校長甄試,我欣喜若狂,人生從沒有如此快樂,那一刻我對自己說,付出終於有回報,都是值得的,我會更快樂。2004通過高中校長甄試,我對自己說,這是我的目標,我每天和同伴辛勤工作 我們辛勤工作,表現越來越好。
人無完人,沒有人會處於極端的糟糕,也沒有人是極端的卓越,關鍵是如何變得更優秀,每個人都有志向,人生的歷程中走出的每一步,採取不同的方法與態度。
Here and Now
Every time is a changing time. Changing in this
time. In many ways, my shift, my journey from perfectionism and it’s an on-going
journey, a journey that goes on right now as we speak, my journey from
perfectionism to the pursuit of excellence is the most intimately linked with
my journey toward becoming happier. So I want to share some personal things
that I’ve been through. I would wake up at 6 am in the morning after breakfast and
got to school. Right after school-it was next to a walk, and then late evening,
I would go home, enjoy reading and then go to sleep. For tears, this was my
pattern. It was pleasure. It was enjoying, especially the interval learning
work out with my colleague.
And I
was sustained by the belief, by the vision, by my personal mission at the time
of helping others. I said to myself, “I f I arrival this , then I’ll be happy; Then
I’ll be calm. And it’s all going to be worth it.” Why? Because no pain, no
gain.
We
are doing all these things to squeeze things together so we can save time. And
I don’t know about you but I don’t have anymore time. I have less time. But let’s
just say we could save up a whole chunk of time and set it aside. You know what
we’d do with it? Nothing. Nothing at all. Isn’t that the point to be able to do
nothing at all? But we’re not guaranteed that later on chunk of time. All I
have is Here And Now and that’s why procrastination feels so right!
Procrastination
is not the problem. It is the solution. It is the universe’s way of saying”
Stop. Slow down. You move too fast. Listen to the music. Whoa whoa, listen to
the music”. Remember this” PROCRASTINATE NOW. DON’T PUT IT OFF .
In
1989, I reached the Primary School Principal Examination, I understand-no pain,
no gain. And I continued to learn and work hard. In 1997, I through the Junior School
Principal Examination, I was ecstatic, joyous, happier than I ever remember
myself being. And at that moment, I said to myself “it all paid off. It was all
worth it.” And at that moment I said to myself “it all paid off. It was all
worth it. Because now I was ready to be happy.” In 2004 I through High School
Principal Examination again, I said, “ this is my goal, this is my objective.”
And I work hard every single day with my partners, we work harder and harder.
And we got better and better.
Now there is no perfectionist, there is no
one person who is on the extreme, nor there is a person who’s on the excellence
extreme. The key is how do become great, everyone have ambitious, having a different
approach toward the journey of our life, toward each step of the way.
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