給自己一個挑戰

1.English Camp first Day
speech
Welcome to Kuala Lumpur Chinese Taipei School.
I hope , through this activity,
you will be more interested in English learning,
improve your listening and speaking ability,
and become a person of multiple languages.
Best wishes
Wu Pao Chen

2. Reading notes
How to win people to your way of thinking
 question and answer
question and thinking
〈1〉You can't win an argument
〈2〉A sure way of making enemies - and how to avoid it
〈3〉If you're wrong, Admit it.
〈4〉A drop of honey
〈5〉The secret of Socrates
〈6〉The safety valve in handling complaints.
〈7〉How to get cooperation
〈8〉A formula that will work wonders for you
〈9〉What everybody wants
〈10〉An appeal that everybody likes
〈11〉The movies do it. Tv does it, why don;t you do it?
〈12〉When nothing else works, try this
Above question worth pondering
Principle as an answer
〈1〉The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
〈2〉Show respect for the other person's opinions.never say, you're wrong.
〈3〉If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
〈4〉Being in a friendly way.
〈5〉Get the other person saying「yes, yes」immediately.
〈6〉Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
〈7〉Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
〈8〉Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
〈9〉Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
〈10〉Appeal to the nobler motives.
〈11〉Dramatize your ideas.
〈12〉Throw down a challenge.
幾個值得思考的問題
一、爭論中你無法贏。
二、不要樹敵。
三、如果自己錯了，承認錯誤。
四、一滴蜂蜜的力量。
五、蘇格拉底的秘密？
六、在安全領域處理申訴。
七、如何合作？
八、創造奇蹟的準則？
九、人們想甚麼？
十、大家都有相同的訴求？
十一、電視、電影都如此，你為何不做？
十二、當走投無路時，試試這個？

原理原則，代答
一、最好的方法是避免爭論。
二、尊重對方的意見，永遠不要說：你錯了。
三、如果錯了，立即認錯。
四、從友誼開始。
五、以「是的，是的」，立即回應他人。
六、讓人深入討論。
七、讓人覺得他的想法被重視。
八、站在對方觀點看問題。
九、同理他人的想法和渴望。
十、訴求高貴的動機。
十一、生動地表達自己的想法。
十二、給自己一個挑戰。